McKenzie,
A big part of the issue was that after you got in trouble for not being nice to B0w, you said it was not you, you said it was your friend. Honesty is very important on Famcraft. Do you understand why it was wrong to say it was someone else if it was really you?
Also, even if it had actually been a friend, it is each players job to keep their own account safe.
When a staff members corrects you it is to help you learn how to behave here and how to follow the rules. When you were corrected for being mean to B0w, if you had just agreed to be nice instead of making excuses you would not have been banned.
In order for us to unban you we need to know that you understand these things-
1. It is important to always be kind to others on Famcraft. This includes your family members or real life friends.
2. It is important to be honest. Do not fib or make excuses if you get in trouble. Always tell the truth. This will help you in all of life- not just Famcraft.
3. Listen to staff. Staff is here to help you learn the rules so you can stay out of trouble.
4. You are responsible for your own account. If your account does not behave, your account gets banned so always think carefully before sharing your account with anyone.
McKenzie, if you understand these things, please post a reply and let us know then we can try to get you unbanned and back on the server so you can play with your brother.