I talked with her about it.  She misunderstood about the realms.  She is 10 years old.  She thought that as long as she stayed in famcraft that is was ok.  She is very sorry and devastated about being banned.  She loves this site and did not do this intentionally at all.  I discussed with her that she cannot talk about ANYTHING about going somewhere else with someone.  She was excited to show another player what she had made in her realm.  She is very sorry and told me she will make sure not to do it again.

Thank you sooo much!!  I promise to follow the rules!!   See you in famcraft!! Yippee!!  I am so happy!!