I'd like to point out a few things to you personally, for future references incase you were to someday, somehow return to our server.
1- You shouldn't refer to thoatt specifically about your ban, all of us decide if you stay or go.
2- We log everything you type into the server and anything done while playing in the game, this is a family friendly server and we intend to keep it that way. Clan chat is publicly viewable by anyone on IRC, so getting upset that we can see your clan chat in a FAMILY FRIENDLY environment is just silly. What did you think, we are like other servers who really don't care what happens? We work really hard and non stop to ensure the kids are safe.
3- We offer our server free to the public, so there isn't any obligations on our end of having to put up with anyones headache. So don't go around to servers thinking the owners or staff have an obligation to put up with you as we don't, we just choose to.
4- You have cursed in the past on the server and was punished by it, first time you got away with it, second time you got kicked, third time you were tempbanned.
It is obvious you only choose to follow our rules when you decide to follow them, and I won't allow this on my servers, you must follow all of our rules at all times if you plan to stay on our server, which obviously you didn't. You will not be unbanned from our server, I apologize but we've given you more than enough chances, which once again we aren't obligated to. Enjoy server hunting and I hope you find a server which fits your needs.